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Expand Your Vision Seminars A Great Success

We had seven churches represented at Pleasant Hill CC for our seminars held on Sat. May 14th.  We had 55 persons in attendance and everyone thoroughly enjoyed the moring.  A special thanks to our seminar leaders: 

  1.  Sunday School Rewired: Marcia Stout and Debbie Hall from the 902 Church in Kinston. 

  2. 8-Track Church In A iPhone World (social media):  Rev. Ryan Vernon from the 902 Church in Kinston. 

  3. Prayer As A Weapon:  Rev. Jack Mumford from Otway CC.  

Enjoy the pictures!

 

 

DHFof NC Leadership Council Meeting of March 12, 2016

The DHF of NC Leadership Council met in regular session on Saturday, March 12, 2016 at FCC Richlands with five members of the council present.  Rev. Dr. Gary Edens opened the meeting with a time of prayer and sharing by all council members.  It was a very spiritually rich time for all.

  1. Lynn read the minutes from our previous meeting.
  1. Gary noted that he contacted Broad Creek CC about a possible meeting with them to discuss our fellowship and was informed that they had no interest in joining DHF of NC, but only wanted to encourage our efforts.
  1. The group discussed the upcoming May 14th workshop to be held at Pleasant Hill CC. Jack Mumford will present a seminar on prayer.  Lynn is in contact with Rev. Rick Vernon of the 902 church to discuss their participation in leading a seminar on social media and Sunday school.  As of March 28th, Lynn has received confirmation from Rick that Rev. Ryan Vernon will host a seminar on social media, and Mrs. Marcia Stout will conduct a seminar on Sunday School.  It was decided that we would begin registration at 9:00 a.m. with a time of worship beginning at 9:30.  The seminars will begin at 10:00 a.m. and lunch will be served at 11:45 by Pleasant Hill.  Lynn will be following up with Ryan and Marcia to discuss the seminars.
  1. Lynn presented the costs for car window stickers, T-shirts and golf shirts from “The Sign Barn” in Beulaville, NC. Their prices are very reasonable, but are one-color prints and not stitching.  Lynn will make an effort to get quotes from other businesses in order to provide a good comparison.
  1. Lynn is currently collecting costs from major Newspapers on the cost of placing a DHF of NC advertisement in their papers. Our goal is to make our fellowship known to a greater audience in N.C.
  1. There was no update on the potential for a youth event due to the absence of Rev. Kim Holly.
  1. The group spent the majority of the meeting reviewing and discussing the formation of a Theology Concept or Statement of Beliefs to be published on our web site. We reviewed all the belief statements submitted by each church and worked to come to a consensus on how ours should be stated.  Our desire is to not come off harsh, and yet we want it to be clear, readable, and digestible by a diverse audience.  In essence, we want to be about what we believe, rather than what we are against.  After coming to no firm consensus, Lynn agreed to work at developing a draft proposal for the group to work with at our next meeting.
  1. FYI, Unity CC is still looking for a new minister. Since Rev. Gary Edens will be retiring from FCC Richlands on April 24, 2016, their church is also beginning the search process.
  1. Our next Leadership Council meeting will be held on Apr. 16th at 10:00 a.m. at FCC Richlands.

Minutes of Leadeship Council Meeting on Jan. 9, 2016

The DHF of NC Leadership Council met in regular session on Saturday, Jan. 9, 2016 at FCC Richlands with all members of the council present. Rev. Dr. Gary Edens opened the meeting with a devotion from 2 Corinthians 5:17 (NIV); “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come!” His emphasis was on the word “new.” Traditions have their place, but we should always focus on the new things that God is doing and keep moving our congregations forward in the will of God.

Since we had not met since Oct. Lynn highlighted the significant items from the past two meetings.

1. The first item of business was to consider an honorarium for Rev. Michael Ten Eyck for his excellent and committed service at our first two gatherings. We paid for his airline tickets, but the Council felt like he should be compensated for his services.

2. The group spent time reviewing/assessing the pros/cons of our previous DHF of NC Gathering held on Nov. 7, 2015 at FCC Richlands. Rev. Jack Mumford noted that the attendance was not as high as the first event. The group felt it was because it fell right at the beginning of the holiday season when people were gearing up for Thanksgiving and Christmas. Everyone thought the way we joined together to provide for the meal worked out real well. Rev. Lynn Maxwell noted that the registration process went very well and thanked Tuckahoe for managing this process. Jack also mentioned that there didn’t seem to be enough time between lunch and the afternoon session for viewing exhibits and fellowship with one another. We will plan on allowing more time for this at our next gathering. Everyone felt it would go over better if we had just one large gathering a year well before the holidays and focused on smaller events/workshops at other times during the year.

3. The Council set September 17, 2016 as the target date for our next gathering. The event is tentatively set to be held at Unity CC pending approval of their church board.

The Council also discussed holding a workshop with seminars on issues relevant to our churches. We came up with three topics for consideration: 1. A workshop on prayer by Rev. Jack Mumford. 2. A workshop on Social Media for churches (presenter to be determined). 3. Sunday School ???. Many churches are struggling with declining numbers in Sunday school and thought it would be good to explore alternative approaches in order to ensure the church is teaching the Scriptures to its members. The group recommended contacting Rev. Ryan Vernon from the 902 Church to see if he could assist us with the Sunday school workshop. Lynn will contact Ryan Vernon about this.

The basic format for the workshop will be: 1. Opening with short message and music. 2. Three workshops held simultaneously (churches should have enough people in attendance to cover specific workshops of interest). 3. Lunch followed by dismissal. The entire function should be completed in one morning session. The first workshop will be held on Sat., May 14, 2016 at Pleasant Hill CC pending board approval.

4. It was noted that we had contacts from two churches as a result of the advertisement placed in the Sun Journal and two papers in Pamlico County. Since we are identified as DHF of “NC,” we believe we should pursue advertising our fellowship throughout the state. Recommendations for consideration are; The News & Observer, Charlotte Observer, Jacksonville Daily News, and Kinston Free Press. Betty will provide Lynn with the ad she developed and he will distribute it to Council members to see if there are any recommendations for changes to the ad before taking action.

Jack suggested that we contact Rick Vernon to see if his TV morning show, Carolina In The Morning, might be interested in a hosting a short interview about our fellowship. Lynn will contact Rick to see if this is feasible.

We also felt it is time for our fellowship to establish a DHF of NC Facebook page. Kim Holley will take the lead on this.

5. We briefly mentioned the ministerial application/support process. Lynn has the action on developing this document. Lynn is asking for all our churches who have any ministers or Lay persons who would be available for churches to call on when needed to provide him their names. Lynn will establish a database to keep track of the names.

Betty noted that Unity CC is currently without a minister since the beginning of January. She is serving as the interim until they are able to secure another minister.

6. We discussed the desire to develop a youth centered event during the year. Unity CC has a nice gym and facilities to host such an event. Everyone was asked to think about it and offer thoughts/suggestions at our next meeting.

7. One of the churches that responded to our advertising was Broad Creek CC in Pamlico County. One of their Elders contacted Gary and he and his wife attended our gathering. They also came back to one of Richlands’ Sunday services and suggested that their Elders and Richland’s Elders get together after the first of the year. Gary will follow up on this.

8. Rev. Kim Holley will make contacts with Mount Olive University and Campbell University to see about establishing some kind of relationship with them, especially in the area of ministerial support.

9. Gary and Kim noted that they have used Pro-Image and The Sign Barn for making shirts. The Sign Barn has also made signs and decals for various church functions. Pro-Image does embroidery type images whereas The Sign Barn uses some type of stenciling process. They can also make car decals. Lynn will contact The Sign Barn for more information.

10. It was agreed that we would take one session and devote it primarily to developing our Theological concepts/beliefs.

11. Gary notified the Council that he would be retiring from full-time ministry on April 24, 2016. But, he would like to continue working with the Council until the completion of his term which is for two years. He and Jacky will be moving to Virginia upon retirement. Gary is willing to drive down for our meetings and special events.

12. Our next Council meeting will be held on March 12, 2016 at FCC Richlands at 10:00 a.m. The topics for our next meeting will be: Theological concept, May Workshop, and discussion of youth event.

 

DHF of NC Gathering of Nov. 7, 2015 @ Richlands FCC

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Registering for the gathering

Registering for the gathering

Welcoming guests

Welcoming guests

Registering for the gathering

Registering for the gathering

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Enjoying good conversation while waiting to begin

Enjoying good conversation while waiting to begin

Everyone is excited at seeing old friends

Everyone is excited at seeing old friends

Kevin Ray, Interim Executive Director of DHF can't wait to get started.

Kevin Ray, Interim Executive Director of DHF can’t wait to get started.

The crowd continues to arrive.

The crowd continues to arrive.

Kevin Ray with Dr. Edens of FCC Richlands

Kevin Ray with Dr. Edens of FCC Richlands

Rev. Kim Holly of FCC Richlands opens with invocation.

Rev. Kim Holly of FCC Richlands opens with invocation.

Kevin Ray addresses the gathering.

Kevin Ray addresses the gathering.

Kevin Ray addresses the gathering

Kevin Ray addresses the gathering

Janet & Ameil Bryan of Richlands FWB church liven up the group with uplifting gospel music.

Janet & Ameil Bryan of Richlands FWB church liven up the group with uplifting gospel music.

Janet & Ameil Bryan

Janet & Ameil Bryan

Janet & Ameil Bryan

Janet & Ameil Bryan

Dr. Edens address the gathering.

Dr. Edens address the gathering.

Our guest speaker for the occasion, Rev. Michael Ten Eyck.

Our guest speaker for the occasion, Rev. Michael Ten Eyck.

Michael Ten Eyck with a great message on "Defining Moments."

Michael Ten Eyck with a great message on “Defining Moments.”

Waiting on the food.

Waiting on the food.

Gathering for lunch.

Gathering for lunch.

Good friends catching up on the news.

Good friends catching up on the news.

Special cake for the occasion.

Special cake for the occasion.

Great lunch.

Great lunch.

Waiting for the food.

Waiting for the food.

Great desserts!

Great desserts!

Good food and fellowship.

Good food and fellowship.

Solving the world's problems.

Solving the world’s problems.

Planning the next move.

Planning the next move.

Who's up next?

Who’s up next?

Preparing for Holy Communion.

Preparing for Holy Communion.

Afternoon music by Tracy Whaley.

Afternoon music by Tracy Whaley.

Beautiful singing by Tracy Whaley.

Beautiful singing by Tracy Whaley.

Rev. Jack Mumford leads Communion with leaders from various churches.

Rev. Jack Mumford leads Communion with leaders from various churches.

OUR GATHERING WAS A GREAT SUCCESS! GREAT FELLOWSHIP, FOOD, AND WORSHIP. WE HAD APPROXIMATELY 80+ IN ATTENDANCE WITH “8” CHURCHES REPRESENTED. PLEASE ENJOY THE PICTURE GALLERY FROM OUR GATHERING. IF YOU “click” on a picture a slide show presentation opens up and you can scroll left and right through all the pictures. Press the “ESC” key to exit the slide show.

 

 

DHF of NC Workgroup Meeting of July 26, 2015

The workgroup met at Unity CC with 21 persons present. Rev. Dr. Gary Edens opened with prayer and a devotion on Matt. 25:31-46 about the separating of the sheep from the goats. Gary noted that the subject in this parable was judgment with the emphasis on serving the “least of these.” Gary shared a personal story from his family with the point of the story being that by living faithfully, even in the face of dire circumstances, it is best to live in such a way as to finish with no regrets. For us, the point is that we should not leave things undone that we should do. Let us be faithful in all things.

The minutes were read by Rev. Lynn Maxwell and approved by the group without changes.

Everyone agreed that Nov. 7th would be an acceptable date for our next gathering at Richlands. Lyn Stowe noted that we should include the youth in the services, but not necessarily have a youth only service. Lyn liked the format we had last April with the 902 Praise band. Lyn noted that he witnessed both young and old tapping their feet. We will follow the same basic format for our next gathering and possibly change the format in the one to follow.

Rev. Kim Holley will contact the 902 church and coordinate with them on planning for the youth.

Gary asked the group who they would like to speak at the upcoming gathering, and there was a motion from Judy Greer and second from Danny Bailey to invite Michael Ten Eyck again if he was available. The workgroup agreed with the motion. Gary will invite him and if he is not available he will seek recommendations from DHF.

Gary asked for volunteers from the churches to help plan the upcoming gathering. Betty & Lyn Stowe from Unity CC volunteered – Judy Greer & Joan Harrell from Pleasant Hill CC – Danny Bailey from Amity CC – Kim Holley from FCC Richlands. Lynn will check with Ottway and Comfort to see if they have someone who would like to participate. Kim will also coordinate with the 902 Church.

The group discussed the make-up of the Leadership Council and how the rotation of officers would be handled. The main concern was that there needs to be adequate time to train the new members before the original leaders rotated off of the council. After much discussion a motion was made by Kim Holley and seconded by Lyn Stowe that the original four (Gary, Lynn, Roger, and Betty) would serve for two years and the additional three on the first council would serve for three years. After two years the original four would rotate off and new council members would replace them, thus allowing for overlap to train them. In order to implement this action, Judy Greer recommended that we develop an Addendum to the Constitution to cover the initial establishment of the Leadership Council since the Constitution calls for a two-year rotation. The motion was approved by the workgroup.

The members of the first official Leadership Council will be; Gary Edens from FCC Richlands, Roger Noble from Tuckahoe CC, Betty Stowe from Unity CC, Danny Bailey from Amity CC, Jack Mumford from Ottway CC, Kim Holley from FCC Richlands, and Lynn Maxwell from Pleasant Hill CC. Lynn was to call Jack Mumford to see if he would accept, and after all had been confirmed it was agreed that the Council would become effective as of August 1, 2015. Gary thanked everyone who has so faithfully worked for the last almost two years to bring us to where we are today. Many thanks to all who caught hold of the vision and dedicated their efforts to make the DHF of NC a reality. As a side note, Rev. Jack Mumford from Ottway CC graciously agreed to serve on the Council.

Lynn was asked to set up a page on our website for church announcements or possibly a calendar.

Respectfully Submitted,

Lynn Maxwell

Minutes of June 28, 2015 DHF of NC Workgroup Meeting

The DHF of NC Workgroup Meeting was held at Pleasant Hill Christian Church with 21 persons present. The meeting was opened with prayer by Rev. Lynn Maxwell, and the devotion was presented by Rev. Rick Vernon from the 902 Church in Kinston.

Lynn reported that he and Gary had visited with Cove City CC and made a presentation to the church on our fellowship. The Pastor of Cove City is Rev. Frank Witham. We were warmly received and enjoyed meeting with those gathered. Please pray for Cove City and their decision about joining with us.

Lynn asked the group to review and discuss the pros/cons of our first DHF of NC gathering that was held on April 25, 2015. Comments were as follows:

· Betty Stowe said she liked that we celebrated Holy Communion.

· Everyone thought the schedule was very good; from 9:00 a.m. till around 3:00 p.m.

· Everyone enjoyed the food, fellowship, and music.

· Church displays were popular.

· Everyone glad to see Campbell University there, and hoped that next time we could get Mount Olive University to attend.

· Based on the success of the previous gathering, Rick Vernon said he felt that attendance would be even better at the next one.

Our next topic of discussion was on what we would like to see in our next gathering. Comments are as follows:

· Rick Vernon said we should make every effort to include more youth in the next event. He also said we should plan for a breakout session for the young people and let them have something relevant to them.

· Let one of the services be more directed to the youth.

· Richlands indicated that the costs to FCC was around $600 – $800. Lynn suggested that the DHF of NC should pick up the costs for future events. Of course, this means that churches should be faithful in their financial support to the fellowship.

· Due to the size of the facilities at FCC Richlands, everyone thought the next gathering should also be at Richlands. Rick said that the 902 church would be going through major renovations in the near term and that maybe in the future the 902 church could host a gathering.

· Mara Adkins and Rev. Kim Holley suggested that it might be good to plan something for the women’s and men’s groups from each church to meet together to plan some kind of joint mission project. Kim noted that the women’s groups had historically been identified as the CWF and that maybe they might all want to come up with some other identification.

· A date was discussed for the next gathering and Nov. 7th at Richlands was agreed upon. Of course, this will have to be coordinated with all the churches before a firm date can be set. The workgroup seemed to believe that we should strive to have two gatherings a year if possible. Once the date is set we would call on representatives from each church to help plan the event.

The next item of discussion was to discuss the process we will put in place to move from our current working group to the leadership council as described in our constitution. We reviewed a copy of the constitution and then opened the floor up for discussion.

· Lyn Stowed and Rick Vernon felt like it was very important for the four ministers that led the development of the fellowship to remain in place for the first two years before any rotation of those individuals took place. They felt it was important to keep those individuals in place to train the other three who would be joining the leadership council. After the first two years a normal rotation should begin. The four individuals are: Rev. Dr. Gary Eden, Rev. Roger Noble, Rev. Betty Stowe, and Rev. Lynn Maxwell.

· In order to broaden representation, it was suggested that the other members come from the other churches currently in the fellowship. As per the Constitution, leadership council members should only come from those churches that have joined the fellowship.

· The details for accepting nominations from the other churches was not discussed. We solicit any comments from other churches within the fellowship on this matter.

It was agreed that our next working group meeting would be held on July 26th at 4:00 P.M. at Unity CC.

We received the membership form from Comfort CC, so “WE WANT TO OFFICIALLY WELCOME COMFORT CHRISTIAN CHURCH INTO THE DHF OF NC.” We look forward to working with and sharing in ministry with all of them.

Respectfully submitted,

Lynn Maxwell